Who cares if Beyonce lip-synced the Star Spangled Banner.
She sang the hell out of it recorded or live. People need to get a life and
find something else to talk about. They won't.
Please take notes. You will NOT get raw, uncut business advice like this anywhere else.
Scandal episode:
"Beyonce Star Spangled Banner" reminds me of haters
I’ve dealt with throughout my career. One hater-supervisor never gave me a compliment
without adding a “BUT” at the end.
"When you get a chance, stop by my office." Her casualness gave her away.
“Your work on
_______________ was pretty good, BUT I noticed you didn’t __________.”
“Several people told
me what a great job you did on _________, BUT I think you should improve your
_________.”
I value constructive criticism, BUT I know a hater when I
work for (or with) one. In the corporate world, a hater is called a detractor.
They’re game for any opportunity to knock you down a notch or two. Detractors
wonder,
“Who you think you are?” You
can’t win with a detractor. You have something they want.
Don't believe, me ask Ray Lewis about haters.
How do you know if you’re dealing with a detractor or being overly sensitive?
Head Up:
- If a person CONSISTENTLY goes out of his way to
nit pick your performance, no matter how wonderful everyone else says you are,
you’re dealing with a hater.
- When you have a great idea, and a particular person ALWAYS shoots
it down. You’re detractor strikes again.
- If your co-worker downplays your significance on
major projects, and you did MOST of the work, she’s a hater!
End Result:
Beyonce’s headed to the bank, cashing
Pepsi checks, while her detractors bemoan
her performance at the inauguration. She’s talented, beautiful, and paid. It
kills people. I don’t know if she’s bothered by the negativity, she human it
might get to her. BUT, Beyonce won’t let the haters stop her,
and you shouldn’t either. Maybe you let them win a time or two, but keep
it moving, and keep cashing those checks.
BTW, the office is full of people you must watch closely! 9-5 is a land mine honey.
Am I right or wrong, please leave a comment and let me know.
They Don't Teach This in School
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Hillerie Camille
This week, I learned about the 369th Regimen known as the "Harlem Hellfighters." They were actually the first "colored" regimen to enter combat oversees. The Hellfighters broke ground in France, during the first World War, proving our soldiers are suited for great duty. Learning about these courageous men warmed my heart, and reminded me of the stories my grandfathers shared about World War II. I hope you take time to learn about other great people this month, for now Google the Harlem Hellfighters.
